FGO. like how you pronounce USA. F.G.O. what is FGO you ask? oh, well quite frankly it means F***ing Growth Opportunity. an FGO typically happens when after an event, whether it be discussion, argument, life and death situation, a bad coffee combo, whatever you deem fit, etc. And after this event, you learn something and you grow as a person.
why am i bringing F.G.O’s up? well, to quote grey’s anatomy’s addison, “there is a land called passive-aggresiva and i am their queen.” i am also the queen of avoidance. you don’t have to tell me that avoiding will eventually blow up in my face because i, in fact, do know this. i’m just a fan of instant satisfaction and therefore avoiding works for me. anyway. i am passive-aggressive in a bad way. when i should be passive, i’m aggressive. when i should be aggressive, i’m passive. i am typically always the opposite of what i should be in that moment and that’s so frustrating because things happen and then i go, well WTF just happened?! this is where FGO comes in handy. if something blows up in my face, i get to analyze it and learn from it. so annoying, yet so worth it.
life. it’s an F’ing Growth Opportunity.